We all want to live a healthy life. Happy, strong, loved and cherish. And while many of think we can do it alone we can’t. Living healthy and happy life is depends on many factors and one of them is your personal life with your partner.
When you’re in a relationship with someone it can feel like it is not too much to ask for to be close to the top of your partner’s priority list. In other words, there are occasions when school, job, or family stuff needs to be at the forefront of your partner’s attention, but you still deserve to feel like you’re important. You still deserve a segment of time your partner has left to give, no matter what’s going on.
It is hurtful when you do not feel prioritized (når man ikke føler sig prioriteret), especially if you really need him. No matter how much you care about him, sometimes you just need to let that person go who don’t give you a value. As you cannot live your life waiting for someone to text you back.
In many cases, people actually are still their partner’s priorities, even if it doesn’t feel that way. Finding out your position in the relationship can take some time, but if you feel you’re not a priority to him (når man ikke føler sig prioriteret) you’ll be able to figure out your position.
Read the following signs which let you confirm that you are not your partner’s priority (når man ikke føler sig prioriteret).
- Loneliness – Your partner make plans without even consulting you.
- There’s not much effort on Special Occasions
- They don’t care if they disappoint you
- Always late and forgets important dates
- They don’t fight with you (If you’re not important to someone, they’re probably not going to spend their time fighting with you or for you.)
- You’re pretty sure that They Use You For Sex
- They Don’t Make Time For You
If your partner wants to talk to you he will. Some partners can excuse that they are busy in own stuff, but someone who gives you a priority will find time for you. Yes! Because it’s all about effort, no matter in what kind of relationship you are living, whether it is a friendship or a lover’s relationship.
Keep in mind that at this stage you are important for you. Love yourself if you do, Prioritized yourself, you will find your relationship changing for the better.